Prayer To Live In Peace Whenever Possible

 PEACE IS POSSIBLE

No matter how much we want to live in peace and try to keep peace with others, we may still encounter people who are hostile.  Despite our loving comments and gestures, they insult us or accuse us and just go out of their way to irritate or hurt us.  How should we respond?  How can we maintain peace? God knows these situations will arise and so we are given some helpful advice in the Bible about living at peace with everyone. 

If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.  Romans 12:18

The first phrase in the above verse is: "If it is possible".  This indicates that there may be times when peace with another person is not possible. The person may not be interested in a peaceful environment, or they may even enjoy causing harm to others.  What are we to do?  Our responsibility is to maintain peace in our own heart.  We remember and hold fast to God’s kindness to us and keep our thoughts filled with kindness, goodness and forgiveness towards the other person. 

But the wisdom from above is first of all pure. It is also peace loving, gentle at all times, and willing to yield to others. It is full of mercy and the fruit of good deeds. It shows no favoritism and is always sincere. And those who are peacemakers will plant seeds of peace and reap a harvest of righteousness. James 3:17-18

The second phrase in the same verse is, "as far as it depends on you".  We are not meant to co-dependently prop up someone in their sinful or harmful behaviour or attitude.  We can walk away from a person who is being belligerent, but we must be careful to do so with peace.  Irritation and condemnation need to go.  God’s peace and healing need to be received.  When we have settled our hearts, we should pray for the other person that they would grow in grace and the knowledge of our Lord Jesus and receive His grace, mercy and peace.

Heavenly Father, we want to live at peace with others.  Help us to resolve conflict with others when it is possible, and as far as it depends on us.  Our desire is always to be peace loving and gentle. We admit we too often fall short of this ideal, but here we are today asking that you will help us to give generously and graciously to those we find hard to love.  Help us to be gentle and gracious and to speak sincerely and with respect no matter how we are spoken to.  Help us to pray for those who seem unable to make peace and live in peace today.  We know this reflects Your heart for us and them.  We want to live as You show us and leave everything else to You.  Amen