Dealing With Insults and Lies

Jesus always spoke the truth.  He encouraged people to follow Him because He is the way, the truth, and the life.  He said some things that are very difficult to do and do not seem to fit into the category of comfort and encouragement. 

Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. 

Matthew 5:11

Really?  How can Jesus really mean this?  Isn’t it enough that we don’t act violently in response to what others say and do or spread vicious rumors about them to others? 

Not only does the Bible teach us to not react and return evil for evil but it challenges us even further when we are taught to find a way to bless the one who is speaking badly about us. 

Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. 

1 Peter 3:9

As Jesus hung on the cross, He blessed and forgave those who put Him there, even while they were busy mocking Him and making fun of Him.  Jesus knew it was better to focus His actions on fulfilling what God wanted Him to do rather than be distracted by the sinful words or behaviours of others. 

While it may be a challenge, it is true that God will help us when we choose to stop the cycle of insults with kindness. 

This does not mean that we smile while our fists are clenched.  It does mean that we give up the desire for revenge.  We let God speak truth to our hearts and give us peace within so the insults and evil lies of others wash off us like oil on a non-stick pan surface. 

When we do this, we can then ask others to tell us what their problem is and listen long as they offer an explanation.  Sometimes it is the right thing to simply walk away in peace and pray a blessing on the wounded angry person.

Heavenly Father, it seems so difficult to follow this instruction of not insulting someone back when they insult us or speak evil about us, but choosing to bless them instead.  Help us we are willing to do things Your way. 

With Your help we will do our best to be agents of forgiveness and healing with everyone – people from our past, present, and going forward into the future.  Remove all the sting and accusation of false words about us from our minds.   Heal our wounded hearts and help us to see ourselves self and others as You see them.  Amen.

Well, Jesus didn’t shy away from a challenge did He?  He said we’d be blessed if we practiced this.  He’s the truth teller.  Let’s trust this truth He gives us today.