Power In Relationships

Whether it is a group of bullies on a school playground or an abusive partner behind closed doors, it's never right for one person to push their agenda or desires on another. 

Some of us have lived on either side of being domineering and demanding or submissive and trampled on.  We've felt bullied and we've used manipulation to try to pressure others to give us what we want.  We've used anger and complaining or lied and hidden our true needs and desires, in order to keep things peaceful with someone else. 

God has a better plan for us as we live in relationship with others.  God invites us to let go of the fear and co-dependency behind these behaviours and live in loving submission to each other.

In everything, do to others what you would have them do to you. 

Matthew 7:12

Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves. 

Philippians 2:3

Loving God, We know we need to bring our hearts and actions before You every day and seek Your help in determining whether we are being self-centered or forceful in our relationships.  We also need to move away from the lie that we are inferior to others.  Mutual respect.  Mutual service.  This is Your heart for us in our relationships.

Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. 

Romans 12:10

Help us to see ourselves and others as You see us, recognizing that we live each day for Your agenda rather than for our own or someone else's. 

Teach us today how to value and lift up others without throwing away our dignity. Show us how to be generous with others, when to step back, when to agree to disagree, but always to do so with honour and respect.

Help us to honour you, others, and ourselves in all we do and say.  Amen

Only God can teach us how to behave well in each of our relationships.  Let’s seek His advice all day long as we interact with others.