Wednesday, June 5, 2013 -- Rebuilding Relationships Around Me

We often spend a lot of time and energy on trying to change others and how they treat us. It’s time to accept the fact that we are powerless to change anyone but ourselves. Change comes when we scrutinize what WE are saying and doing today in light of God's word.  God will reveal to us the actions that caused us pain and will bring healing to our inmost being. God will renew us and those we have harmed as we confess every hurtful action and word we have done or said.

It's time to turn from the wounds and the blaming.  It’s time to turn to our compassionate Father in heaven who loves us and who is offering to fill our lives with so much good that we will have no more room for bitterness and pain.  God, through Jesus, truly is in the business of restoration. Knowing Jesus and how He made amends for us is the basis that prepares us to become willing to make amends with others.  

Do not say what is wrong in other people’s lives. Then other people will not say what is wrong in your life. Do not say someone is guilty. Then other people will not say you are guilty. Forgive other people and other people will forgive you. (Luke 6:37 NLV)

God, You created me in love, to live in loving relationship with you, others, and myself.  I have fallen short.  My words and actions have caused pain.  Forgive me because of what Jesus did for me on the cross.  Renew me with Your Spirit so I can be the loving person You originally intended.  As I look honestly at myself and my relationships, in the light of Your love, help me to be honest and thorough, trusting that You have the strength and comfort for me to face everything I uncover. Nothing is a surprise to You.  You've seen it all and You continue to love me unconditionally.  Help me to repeatedly accept the love and forgiving grace of Jesus over and over again.  I trust You to reveal my heart, my history, and Your plans for my future. Keep me strong in your love always.  Amen.

How am I “breaking the cycle” of pain and dysfunction in my life?  Where is God in this process of my becoming willing to make amends?