Loving Others Making Amends (2)
Tuesday May 17, 2016
Our parents or caregivers are deeply connected to our lives on many levels. Whether our families are functional or dysfunctional, whether they’ve made a mess of their lives or are a picture of perfection, they are still those who were charged with our care. At one time they may have held us in their arms and hoped and dreamed that our lives would be even better than their own. Parents are deeply vulnerable to hurt from the children in their care.
Jesus replied, “‘You shall not murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not steal, you shall not give false testimony, honor your father and mother,’ and ‘love your neighbor as yourself.’ (Matthew 19:18-19 NIV)
When our lives are damaged by the effects of addiction, our parents grieve over the pain that we inflict on ourselves, our spouses, and their grandchildren. We have the capacity to cause grief, bitter sorrow, shame, and disgrace on our family. Even if they have contributed to our problems, we need to take responsibility for our side of the relationship by doing what we can to make things right with them.
Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results. (James 5:16 NLT)
When we begin to live in God's amazing grace and forgiveness, we can in turn extend grace and forgiveness to our parents and all who have harmed us. We are encouraged in the Bible to treat all others, and that includes our parents, caregivers and others, as we would like to be treated. When we recognize and become willing to make amends for the wrongs we have done, then the healing process with others can begin.
Help me understand the meaning of your commandments, and I will meditate on your wonderful deeds. I weep with sorrow; encourage me by your word. Keep me from lying to myself; give me the privilege of knowing your instructions. (Psalm 119;27-29 NLT)
Today, let’s reflect on how Jesus taught us to treat one another.
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