Strong people with a true sense of their identity, are often the gentlest souls around. They don’t have to pretend to have courage in loud aggressive ways because they are confident in who they are and what they believe. They know themselves to be imperfect and so they graciously make allowances for the faults of others. They know they are learning and growing and they make space for others to do the same.
A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare. Gentle words are a tree of life; a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit. Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. (Proverbs 15:1, 15:4, Ephesians 4:2 NLT)
People who are secure in themselves don’t have to fight on every point. They can agree to disagree and be pleasant about it. They don’t have to try to build themselves up by saying one thing to a person’s face and then something else behind their backs. They are genuinely people of integrity. Gentle people are some of the most admired by their colleagues and associates. Far from being weak, a gentle person exhibits an immense amount of self-control and patience. These are strong characteristics that humble people develop.
They [Leaders] must not slander anyone and must avoid quarreling. Instead, they should be gentle and show true humility to everyone. But the wisdom from above is first of all pure. It is also peace loving, gentle at all times, and willing to yield to others. It is full of mercy and the fruit of good deeds. It shows no favoritism and is always sincere. (Titus 3:2, James 3:17 NLT)
God invites us to leave harshness, super-sensitivity, sarcasm and insincerity behind and enter into a life in harmony with His plan – a plan that displays gentleness in all our dealings with others.
Prayer: Heavenly Father, You chose us to be holy people. We want to grow in Your grace so we become people with tender hearts, full of kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. We need your help. Amen
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