The Grudges We Carry
Friday March 9, 2018

Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. (Romans 12:17 NKJV)
When someone has treated us badly, taken something away from us that is rightfully ours, or offended us in some way, we feel hurt by their actions. We want them to make amends. If, for whatever reason, amends are not made for sustained hurts, we may carry a grudge against the offender.
Some of us bury the grief of unresolved offenses inside us and try to relieve the pain and hopelessness we feel with addictive substances or co-dependent relationships. We are causing ourselves more grief and bitterness by not dealing with the wrongs we have sustained.

See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many. (Hebrews 12:15 NIV)
Forgiveness is the only way to stop the pain of a buried grudge. For some of us who have been victimized, forgiveness seems unthinkable. We are in pain and forgiveness rips at our sense of justice. We want the offender to pay; to suffer in return for the suffering they inflicted on us. But, until we forgive the offender, he or she will continue to hurt us because we are tied to this person, and to the past event, by our unwillingness to forgive and be healed.

Prayer: Dear God, please help me to forgive others for their offenses as you have forgiven me for mine. Amen
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