Gentleness


Our former lifestyle of destructive life habits and addiction was harsh and filled with problems.  We operated in an environment of chaos, angry words, and bullying.  The new life in recovery to which God invites us, is one of gentleness and speaking the truth in love to each other.

Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. (Colossians 3:12 NLT)

Gentleness is seen in a kind gesture or action.  We hear it in the tone of voice of a person offering encouragement and comforting words.  We recognize gentleness in the way a little baby is held or when a beloved parent or grandparent is kissed on the cheek. To be present with love and compassion for someone is an expression of gentleness, particularly when that person is frail or vulnerable.

A person who is speaking and acting in a gentle way appears safe to be around and we can relax and feel at ease in their presence.  When we meet with them, they don’t just bring their own agenda, they are respectful of who we are and are attentive to what we are saying.  God is gentle and his desire is that His gentleness will be expressed through each of us, every day of our lives, in all our relationships.



We need to let go of the fearful, angry, impatient way of life that we’ve grown familiar with in addiction.  God wants us to get rid of everything that hinders our relationship with Him and with others.  Jesus wants us to be kind and compassionate towards one another, so that we reflect Him living in us.


Jesus said:  Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls.  (Matthew 11:29 NLT)




Prayer:  Lord Jesus, I want to be a gentle person.  I want to be humble and gentle at heart and, from that place of peace in my soul, be kind and gentle in my attitude towards others. Amen

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