Breaking Shame’s Power

Wednesday January 23, 2019

Shame is a powerful emotion that repeatedly tells us we are worthless, unacceptable, unforgiveable, and have no place in a loving relationship.  Pictures of embarrassing happenings tend to replay in our minds and intensify our shame.  However, God stands ready to forgive what we have done and repair the harm caused to us and to others.  The only way to rid ourselves of shame is to ask for and receive the forgiveness of God for our actions.  When we accept Jesus’ death as payment for ALL our sins, God will work to bring restoration and healing where any event has caused harm. 


He [Jesus] has come to do away with sin by offering himself.  People have to die once.  After that, God will judge them.  In the same way, Christ was offered up once. He took away the sins of many people. (Hebrews 9:26-28 NIRV)

People who live in shame are bound up with fear.  They build walls.  They are terrified to get to know themselves.  They wear a mask and live a role that does not reflect who they truly are.  They constantly seek the approval of others.  They are unable to live in a healthy mutual relationship because at the core of their being they believe they can never measure up. 

God invites us to turn away from our sins and receive forgiveness. God wants us to be who we truly are – the person He created us to be.  God wants us to come to Him just as we are, shame and all.  As we wholeheartedly give our will and life over to God’s care, our old shameful self is put to death and we are raised to new life without stain or blemish.  The solution to shame is: receive what God is offering, see what God is seeing, and say what God is
saying. 


The Spirit that we received is not a spirit that makes us slaves again and causes us to fear.  The Spirit that we have makes us God’s chosen children.  And with that Spirit we cry out, “ Abba, Father.”  And the Spirit himself speaks to our spirits and makes us sure that we are God’s children.  (Romans 8:15-16 ERV)



Prayer:  Lord Jesus, I admit that in the past I have done shameful things.  Thank You that You died on the cross to take away my shame and the punishment for my sins.  Because I accept Your death in my place, I believe I am free from all sin and have become a child of God. From this day forward, I choose to follow Your ways and rely on Your promises.  Amen

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