Whether it’s a commitment we make to ourselves, to others, or to God, keeping at it until it's completed is tough for an addict. So, as God's word teaches us, it's important not to promise too many things.
Be careful when you make promises to God. Be careful about what you say to him. Don’t let your feelings cause you to speak too soon. God is in heaven, and you are on the earth. So you need to say only a few things to him. If you make a promise to God, keep your promise. Don’t be slow to do what you promised. God is not happy with fools. Give God what you promised to give him. It is better to promise nothing than to promise something and not be able to do it. (Ecclesiastes 5:2,4-5 ERV)
One day at a time we need to keep things simple, and steadily work on what's essential. When we make a promise, we need to treat it seriously and step by step do what's necessary to fulfill it. We may need to learn new things, accept suggestions from others about what will work to help us reach our specified goals, and come to God again and again for wisdom and strength to do what is right. We might even need to ask for comfort and encouragement when it's tough to keep on going. When we feel like the finish line is a long way off, we need to take time to notice the improvement we have already made.
Some of us will struggle to stay with a program of coming to know God and being willing to turn our will and our life over to His care every day, in every circumstance. For a long time we have lived on self-will and the lie that we could do “anything we wanted.” Therefore, it takes time to root out what’s false and stick with what is bringing positive change.
Keeping our word and seeing something through brings dignity, self-respect, and the blessing of God. One success gives us the strength to reach out for the next.
Prayer: Heavenly Father, I want to be a person who is known to keep my promises. Help me to keep things simple. Help me to walk with humility and patience. Help me to be willing to learn new things and persevere until I fulfill each of my commitments. Amen
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