In recovery meetings we’ve heard some people tell “war stories” that made us cringe and which may have triggered something negative in all of us who were listening. Thankfully, most of those who share their experience, strength, and hope do so in a tactful and thoughtful way. It’s important to be considerate of others as we speak. We don’t need to brag. We simply need to share what God has done for us and how He continues to accompany us on the journey.
You’re blessed when you stay on course, walking steadily on the road revealed by God. You’re blessed when you follow his directions, doing your best to find him. That’s right—you don’t go off on your own; you walk straight along the road he set. (Psalm 119:1-3 MSG)
It’s important to be sensitive in any response we may make when someone is openly sharing about difficulties they are experiencing. The person may want to identify with another who knows and understands their situation. Even if we think they are co-dependently looking for rescue or still dealing with denial, we need to be tactful and compassionate when we respond to what they are sharing.
Be gracious in your speech. The goal is to bring out the best in others in a conversation, not put them down, not cut them out. (Colossians 4:6 MSG)
Sometimes when a person is doing wrong, we need to gently point them in the right direction. This should always be done with prayer and great sensitivity. Our purpose should always be to encourage.
Tell everyone God’s message. Be ready at all times to do whatever is needed. Tell people what they need to do, tell them when they are doing wrong, and encourage them. Do this with great patience and careful teaching. (2 Timothy 4:2 ERV)
By our speech, do we create in others a desire to know God? That is truly speaking with tact and sensitivity.
Prayer: Gracious God, Thank You for the mighty work You have done in me. Please give me great tact and sensitivity as I speak of Your grace poured out on me with others. Help me to encourage them in a way that will bring them closer to You. Amen
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