Giving Up The Lie

Thursday October 3, 2019

Addicts tell lies.  We tell ourselves we need our substance of choice in order to deal with the day.  We believe the truth about our lives is too painful to face, that we’re different, and that our circumstances are too traumatic to overcome.  We lie because we are embarrassed and ashamed.  We lie because we are in denial about where our addiction has taken us.  The bottom line is, we lie because it helps us remain in the familiar place where we are.

Don’t lie to each other, for you have stripped off your old sinful nature and all its wicked deeds.  (Colossians 3:9 NLT)

One of the greatest challenges we face in recovery is giving up the lie we tell ourselves, that we need to lie.  We have not changed much if we lie to get money from the government or lie because we’re ashamed of what we are now remembering and tell only part of the truth about our past. 

Honest people can always feel secure but lying cheaters will be caught.  Kind words are like a life-giving tree but lying words will crush your spirit.  (Proverbs 10:9, 15:4 ERV)

Lies keep us hidden in isolation and shame.  They cloud our ability to seek solutions that bring us real freedom.  It’s time to choose truth and work hard on changing the environment of lying we’ve created.  One truth at a time – even an acknowledgement that we just lied – will bring freedom and relief.  Nothing brings peace and a sense of wellbeing more than living in the truth.  Our recovery is a journey of developing trust in the truth that God’s principles are reliable, and that God is trustworthy.  Each time we tell the truth, regardless of the inconvenience, we will deepen our experience of true freedom and become more stable because God is faithful to His word and will bless us. 



But you must do this: Tell the truth to your neighbors. When you make decisions in your cities, be fair and do what is right. Do what brings peace.  (Zechariah 8:16 ERV)




Prayer:  Heavenly Father, I admit that lying often seems much easier than telling the truth.  I want the life of freedom and peace You promise to those who live in the truth.  Help me to notice today when I lie and give me courage to deal with it immediately.  Amen


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