Confrontational people tend to approach situations with aggression. We might describe them as argumentative or even hostile. They are often pushy with their thoughts and opinions. They seem to work in an "I'm right and you're wrong and you need to get with the program" attitude. They are ready to tell anyone who will listen what is on their mind. They "tell their truth" regardless of its impact on the person listening to them. They say they are being assertive, but others experience it as being demanding and perhaps even abusive.
Everyone has the right to be treated with respect and to have an opportunity to express their needs or opinions, even when they differ from ours. We all need to respect the boundaries of others and let each person live within their borders.
My friends, if someone is caught in any kind of wrongdoing, those of you who are spiritual should set him right; but you must do it in a gentle way. And keep an eye on yourselves, so that you will not be tempted, too. By speaking the truth in a spirit of love, we must grow up in every way to Christ. (Galatians 6:1, Ephesians 4:15a GNT)Our purpose in all our conversations is listen to one another with kindness and where we disagree, show respect for the other person’s point of view. An aggressive manner of interacting will not facilitate the goal of peace in a matter that needs to be challenged. God teaches us to speak the truth. but to do so in a spirit of love and gentleness.
Let us be concerned for one another, to help one another to show love and to do good. (Hebrews 10:24 GNT)
When we bring a humble attitude to our conversation, even when challenge is included, we will not come off as being confrontational and aggressive.
Prayer: Heavenly Father, It’s hard to confront others with truth and even harder to know how to do that in a loving and encouraging way. Please help me communicate clearly and effectively, and to do it with kindness. Help me to listen for Your direction with a humble heart as I approach conversations where confrontation is involved. Amen
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