Wisdom For The Journey: Stop Arguing
Why do people argue? Apparently for lots of reasons. Sometimes we argue because we want our own way; we want to hang on to things as we've known them; we want the sense of power that comes from winning; or maybe we are simply arguing because we are tired or don't understand what the other person is trying to say. Whatever the reasons, when we find ourselves arguing, it's best to take a step back and think about what's going on.
Again I say, don’t get involved in foolish, ignorant arguments that only start fights. A servant of the Lord must not quarrel but must be kind to everyone, be able to teach, and be patient with difficult people. (2 Timothy 2:23-24 NLT)
It's one thing to respectfully debate a particular issue in a genuine search for truth. We can question one another, go back and forth with thoughts and facts that speak to both points of view on the topic in question. However, when we move into that place where all we are doing is trying to look right, get our own way, or simply win the argument, then nothing very useful is going to come out of the discussion and we would do well to step away.
The start of an argument is like a small leak in a dam. Stop it before a big fight breaks out. A troublemaker loves to start arguments. Anyone who likes to brag is asking for trouble. (Proverbs 17:14, 19 ERV)
Forgive someone, and you will strengthen your friendship. Keep reminding them, and you will destroy it. (Proverbs 17:9 ERV)
Prayer: Heavenly Father, help me to be a seeker of truth and reconciliation rather than simply wanting to win an argument. Give me the strength and grace to respond with kindness and respect and to do what is right when a conversation gets divisive. Amen
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