Character Strength Co-operation

Monday January 4, 2021

In our addiction, many of us had our character shaped through isolation and getting our own way in whatever way we could. Now in recovery, it is challenging to live in agreement with people who have ideas and ways of doing things that are different from our way. For healthy relationships to be formed and our sobriety sustained we need to develop the character quality of co-operation.

Live in harmony with each other. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all! Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, binding yourselves together with peace. (Romans 12:16, Ephesians 4:3 NLT)

When we co-operate, we work together towards a common goal. It doesn't mean we all do or say the same thing. We each have our distinctive personality and role to play but we take time to listen to one another, to support each other, and together find a way to make things better for everyone concerned. Co-operation requires that we learn from others by letting go of our usual way of thinking and behaving and allow ourselves to try something new. At times it will be important for us to quit hiding in silence and ask a valid question or voice our opinion about a matter in a way that brings some fresh insight to the product or event.

How wonderful and pleasant it is when brothers live together in harmony! (Psalm 133:1 NLT)

Developing a pattern of co-operatively dealing with others will require us to grow and get past easily hurt feelings and approval seeking. It may require that we lay down a bullying attitude or a habit of yelling offensive words. As we learn new ways of interacting with others, God will strengthen and encourage us and bring us to that place of peace which surpasses all understanding.

While it’s not easy to find our place and be ourselves after being detached for so long, the benefits of peace and effective new ways of living are worth the effort.

Prayer: Loving God, You made us to live in co-operation with one another. Forgive me for the many ways I have been hard to get along with, tirelessly voicing my opinion and desiring that my will be done. I ask for Your help to co-operate and build healthy relationships with others. I ask Your Holy Spirit to guide and teach me in all my ways. Amen

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