The second promise found in the Big Book of AA tells us that if we diligently work the steps, “We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it.” This echoes what we read in the Bible about our journey in this new life with God in recovery.
One of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves is accepting the fact that whatever has taken place in our past is done and cannot be changed. We can learn from it and allow God to use it to bring about good, but we cannot change it. With God’s help though, we can safely let go of the regret and shame we may continue to feel.
We know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. (Romans 8:28 NIV)
Because of God’s unfailing love for us, we can look at our past with eyes wide open. We can process what went on in some events and, where necessary, accept responsibility, and then just let the rest go. We can work on becoming ready to make amends for the harm we have done and seek healing and forgiveness for all who were involved. We can keep our hearts and minds open to God’s ongoing healing as He restores us to sanity. We can live with the knowledge of progress rather than perfection. Above all, we can live in gratitude to God for one more day to enjoy His blessings and to carry this message to others who suffer.
Prayer: Loving God, thank you for opening up my future and closing my past. Thank you for giving me today. With your help I will embrace everything this day brings, trusting that you will guide me along a good path and use everything in my life, both the good and the bad, to glorify You today and in the future. Amen
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