Confronting Self-pity

Saturday April 10, 2021

One of our natural responses to the pressure and challenges of life is to indulge in self-pity. Things are not going our way in our timeframe. A misunderstanding occurs and maybe harsh words are spoken. Someone else appears to be having it easier than us. In these, and many other situations, we are quick to feel sorry for ourselves and sink into the mud of “poor me.”

The question is not, “How do we avoid feeling self-pity?” because all of us will have these feelings at times. What would be more helpful is to ask ourselves, “What can I do to overcome self-pity and quickly get back on track?”

Don’t think of yourself more highly than you should. Be reasonable when you think about yourself. Keep in mind the faith God has given to each of you. (Romans 12:3b NIRV)

God wants us to live in the truth about Him, about ourselves, and about our circumstances. When self-pity arises our first response should be to bring ourselves to God and let Him comfort and care for us. Then, in the security of God’s love, we can sort out if this is our super-sensitivity to issues that need to settle down, or a misunderstanding that needs to be respectfully talked about, or a problem that we need God and others to help us deal with.

My God will use his glorious riches to give you everything you need. He will do this through Christ Jesus. The Lord defends his people; he is kind to his servants. (Philippians 4:19, Psalm 135:14 ERV)

Self-pity is always harmful to our well-being. We need to acknowledge that God will defend us against any falsehood. Our part is to stand in the truth of the situation and not get dragged down by discouraging lies that foster self-pity. If we experience self-pity we can use it as a signal to reach out to God for help. We are assured that when we seek God, He will make all things right as we surrender to His will.

Prayer: Heavenly Father, When I face a problem or hear criticism, help me to take a broader view of the situation and not allow myself to fall into self-pity. Help me to stand on the truth of who You say I am and seek a solution which will bring peace and joy to all concerned. Amen

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