Gaining And Practicing Discretion

Saturday April 17, 2021

In the Big Book of AA, we are advised to use discretion in knowing how much time and attention to give to any one situation in comparison to another situation where someone might benefit in their desire to recover if given more time and support. Employers are encouraged to use discretion in how they approach those employees they want to help, even in mentioning the Big Book. We are cautioned to use discretion when making our Step 9 amends to people, and to do so only when it would not further injure them or others.

To show discretion is to know the right thing to do in a situation and behave in such a way that we don't cause offense. Quite the challenge. Thankfully, the Bible is very clear about how we can gain wisdom and practice discretion.

For the Lord grants wisdom! From his mouth come knowledge and understanding. He grants a treasure of common sense to the honest. He is a shield to those who walk with integrity. He guards the paths of the just and protects those who are faithful to him. Then you will understand what is right, just, and fair, and you will find the right way to go. For wisdom will enter your heart, and knowledge will fill you with joy. Discretion will protect you, and understanding will guard you. (Proverbs 2:6-10 NLT, Proverbs 2:11 NIV)

We know that on our own we are powerless to maintain healthy boundaries, think before we speak, and to know what’s best in complicated situations. God’s promise is that He will give us common sense, will protect us, will show us the way that is just and fair, and will even fill us with joy as we walk this journey. We only get wisdom and discretion by improving our conscious contact with God through prayer and meditation, and by practicing His principles in all our affairs. In other words, we learn by journeying with God, obeying what He says works, and then benefiting from the lessons we learn as we see the results. Discretion doesn’t come in a moment. It comes from prayer, experience, integrity, and surrender to God’s will.

Prayer: Heavenly Father, I want to show wisdom and discretion in all my affairs. Help me practice knowledge of Your ways in each situation I encounter today. When I should be silent, help me to not speak. Where I need to practice healthy boundaries, help me to do so. Help me to learn the lessons You are providing as I walk with You each day. Amen

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