How many times did people try to help us see the truth about our problem when we were in active addiction? How many times did we ignore what they said and just continued in our rebellious ways? As we share the message of life with God in recovery with others, we need to pray for wisdom to know when to speak and when to simply pray and leave people until they are ready.
It's a good idea to share in a measured way and watch for a reaction from those we are speaking with. This is particularly true with those who may see us living in recovery but are not yet able or willing to admit their own difficulties and need for change. We may not agree with everything someone says but we do not always need to confront it. Silence has its place. Every conversation with others can lead us to a conversation with God and He will show us when and what we are to say.
On the flip side, when we are with people who are longing to have hope, we need to honour God by telling the story of His work in us that has given us life in recovery and hope. We need to simply share what effect responding to God’s word, or rejecting it, had in our own lives. We are a witness, not a judge. We are to be those with stories of hope and comfort. God’s Holy Spirit will do the rest.
To be wise you must first have reverence for the Lord. If you know the Holy One, you have understanding. Wisdom will add years to your life. You are the one who will profit if you have wisdom, and if you reject it, you are the one who will suffer. (Proverbs 9:10-12 GNT)
Prayer: Loving God, You made so many wonderful changes in my life that I’m eager to share my experience, strength, and hope with others. Help me to be wise and know when to speak and when to listen with respectful silence. Please open up opportunities for me to share Your Good News and, as I open my mouth, fill it with Your words of hope. Amen
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