Maturity In Our Relationships

 A lot of us would admit that we acted immaturely in our former relationships, and that we used and abused others so that we could get what we wanted when we wanted it.  We have confessed and made amends to those we have harmed and now we need to think about how we can change our behaviour so that some of our former relationships can be restored and our new relationships can start off on a healthy foundation. The Bible is the best source for finding the information we need to renew our minds and change our behaviour. 

 Some of us have heard of the “Golden Rule” which is the principle of treating others as we would like others to treat us. In 1 Corinthians 13 in the Bible we are told that loving others is the most important thing and therefore we should not dishonour another person, or be self-seeking, or be rude, or easily angered while dealing with others.  Our manner should not be proudful, envious, or boastful.  We would like others to be like this when we are with them, so we should determine that our behaviour will also always reflect our love for them. 

 Jesus tells us to love one another as He has loved us, so how can we show love and respect to another?  We are patient and kind in our attitude; we forgive easily and do not keep a record of another’s wrongdoing; we protect others and avoid causing them harm; we tell the truth; we encourage and build others up; we are supportive.  As we mature in our ways of caring for others, we will be blessed by God and will be a blessing to others.

 Lord, you will show that I was right to trust you. Lord, your faithful love continues forever. You have done so much for us, so don’t stop now.  (Psalm 138:8 NIRV)

Prayer:  Heavenly Father, As I improve my conscious contact with You, help me to understand Your Word and live according to Your ways in all my relationships.  Amen

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