Dishonesty is a tool we use to protect ourselves from the shame and guilt we feel when challenging moments arise. We used it a lot in addiction so we were able to do whatever we needed to do to continue our messy lifestyle and get what we needed. Addicts lie to themselves and others all the time. They tell themselves they have things under control when they do not. They minimize the problems they are causing. They simply hide from uncomfortable truth.
The Lord hates people who tell lies, but he is pleased with those who tell the truth. (Proverbs 12:22 ERV)
Stress levels are reduced significantly when we tell the truth. We never have to worry about covering for untruthful stories we have told or the lingering reaction of people around us over something unpleasant we have said or done to avoid their questions. We can be ourselves and allow others to do the same. Dishonesty contributes to isolation and loneliness because no matter how much we convince others with our lies, deep down we know we have lied, and we hate ourselves for our ongoing dishonesty.
If you are good, you are guided by honesty. People who can't be trusted are destroyed by their own dishonesty. (Proverbs 11:3 GNT)
The Bible promises that the truth will keep us safe. There may be momentary discomfort if the truth we need to admit is unpleasant, but the long-term benefit of this groundwork will allow us to live with peace of mind and heart.
Honesty will keep you safe, but everyone who is crooked will suddenly fall. (Proverbs 28:18 CEV)
Prayer: Gracious God, please lead me by your truth and teach me, for you are the God who saves me. All day long I put my hope in you. Amen (Psalm 25:5 NLT)
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