Isolation Versus Relationship

 In our addiction, long periods of isolation became a way of life for us.  While people were around us when we were using, there was little or no emotional connection with them.  We didn't trust them, and we certainly didn't feel cared for or understood by them. An important part of leaving behind a life in addiction is coming out of isolation and entering into healthy relationships.  It might be as simple as attending a meeting and saying "hello" to another person.  It certainly means taking time to get to know others and allowing relationships at various levels to bring joy and richness to our daily life. We also take a significant step out of isolation when we sincerely pray the Serenity Prayer and progressively come to know this amazing God, who can restore us to sanity. 

Jesus said: “I am the vine; you are the branches.  Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit.  For apart from me you can do nothing.  (John 15:5 NLT)

 Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. Share each other’s burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ. (Philippians 2:4, Galatians 6:2 NLT)

To demonstrate the power of relationship over isolation the Bible uses the picture of a body where each part works together and supports the other parts.  Where one part is weak, the other offers strength.  As we live with and help each other, we are strengthened and encouraged by all that we can accomplish together.

Let us consider how we can stir up one another to love. Let us help one another to do good works. And let us not give up meeting together. Some are in the habit of doing this. Instead, let us encourage one another with words of hope. (Hebrews 10:24-25 NIRV)

Prayer:  Heavenly Father, Give me the courage to reach out and be a friend.  As You love and encourage me, help me to reach out to others with love and encouragement.  Amen

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