Creating Our Self-image

Understanding the relationship between self-image and addiction is like a chicken and egg situation – trying to interpret which came first. Some of us tried to cover up for our low self-image by using alcohol or drugs. For others addiction contributed to our low self-image as we tried to deal with the guilt and shame of our unmanageable life.  The Bible says God knows all about us and planned our time of birth and where we would live.  Do we factor this into our self-image? 

For all of us, our self-image should be based on why we exist at all.  Do we believe that we are made in the image of God?  Do we believe that God knew us before we were born and had a plan for us?  The Bible tells us the story of Joseph who was rejected by his brothers because he was his father’s favourite.  To get rid of him, his brothers sold him as a slave, and Joseph ended up in Egypt. 

Then he sent someone to Egypt ahead of them—Joseph, who was sold as a slave. They bruised his feet with fetters and placed his neck in an iron collar. Until the time came to fulfill his dreams, the Lord tested Joseph’s character. (Psalm 105:17-19 NLT)

Joseph’s self-image must have changed as he went from being the favourite son in a family to being a slave.  Did God know Joseph had become a slave? The scripture above says God tested Joseph’s character. After many years Joseph’s life turned around and he became second in command in the land of Egypt. How might this have impacted Joseph’s self-image?  

As Joseph’s story unfolds, we should be encouraged. Our self-image will change with life’s circumstances, but as we allow God to direct our ways, we will become aware that our self-image reflects God’s plan for our lives.

Prayer: Gracious God, I am blessed by the fact that You use my past, my present, and my future according to Your purpose as You work all things together for good in my life. Amen

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