How are we to deal with a person who falsely accuses us of something we did not do? We may react in anger, use strong language, or just mutter something under our breath and angrily walk away. Sometimes we counter a false accusation with an accusation of our own or spread gossip about the person. Often, we just remain silent and hold resentment against the person. What is God's way of handling a situation like this while we steadily move forward on our healing journey?
Our priority must be to live in a way that honours God and others. When we are accused of something, there may be a "kernel of truth" in what the person is saying. Perhaps we need to take ownership of the fact that we have wounded someone and make amends for the hurt we have caused.
A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. (Proverbs 15:1 NIV)
Even if the one accusing us refuses to accept the truth, we are encouraged to stay in obedience to God in both our attitude and our action. If we react according to God’s principles, God will bring comfort and healing, and the truth we know in our hearts will set us free. In the end, we need to leave what others mistakenly believe about us in God’s hands and watch Him work to bring light into the situation.
Prayer: Heavenly Father, I know I am sensitive to the criticism and accusation of others especially when they judge me on the basis of my past behaviour. Forgive me for any resentment I hold towards another and help me to forgive as You have forgiven me. Help me to be kind to others and to treat everyone with gentleness and respect. Amen
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