A Positive Approach To Feeling Bored

When we first come into recovery our expectation for a life free from crippling dependencies is huge.  We are excited about what the future may hold and say we are willing to do whatever it takes to get our life back on track.  As the weeks go on our routine becomes dull and we start to be less enthusiastic.  We feel sorry for ourselves and easily get angry with others.  The truth is we are bored.  We feel challenged and vulnerable in our new routine and have begun to focus on our old familiar pattern of life. 

 It is a fair question to ask why we are bored and impatient with where life is at today.  Are we seeking out people who can help us understand what is going on in us, or do we just complain and blame? Boredom is brought about by lack of action. When nothing changes, then nothing changes! Everything in life takes time to accomplish.  

Perhaps we need to change our thought pattern and think about those things that are worthy of praise.  Maybe we need to work on establishing conscious contact with God, praying for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry it out.  Perhaps we could spend time being helpful to others while waiting for things to happen for ourselves.

 Let’s allow any boredom we may experience to give us time to consider positive action and deeper growth in our relationship with God.

Prayer:  Loving Father, I admit that boredom is pushing me back into darkness, and I need help to remove it from my life.  Please help me make wise decisions in the use of my time and help me do those things that please You.  Amen

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