Gentleness

Our formerly destructive lifestyle was harsh and filled with many problems.  We functioned in an environment of chaos, angry words, and bullying.  The new life in recovery to which God invites us, is one of gentleness and speaking the truth in love to those around us.

Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. (Colossians 3:12 NLT) 


Gentleness is normally observed in a kind gesture or action.  We hear it in the tone of voice of a person offering encouragement with comforting words to someone who is troubled.  We can see the quality of gentleness in the way a little baby is held or when we see a parent or grandparent kissed on the cheek by a beloved relative. To be present with love and compassion for someone in distress, particularly when that person is frail or vulnerable, is a tender expression of gentleness.

A person who is speaking and acting in a gentle way appears safe and we tend to relax and feel at ease in their presence.  When meeting with a person with a gentle disposition, we observe that they do not bring their own agenda but are attentive to those things we are sharing with them.  God has a gentle nature.  His desire is that the gentleness He shows towards us will be passed on through us to others with whom we have a relationship. 

We need to let go of the fearful, angry, impatient way of life that was familiar to us in addiction because it hinders our relationship with Him and with others.  Jesus wants us to be kind and compassionate towards one another so we reflect His Spirit living in us.

Jesus said:  Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls.  (Matthew 11:29 NLT)


Prayer:  Heavenly Father, Please help me reflect the nature of Jesus in me and be a humble and gentle person at heart.  My desire is to be loving and compassionate towards others as I choose to act justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with You my God.  Amen

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