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A Safe Truth

Friday September 15, 2023

 Dishonesty is a tool we use to protect ourselves from shame, guilt, or embarrassment.  We used this tool a lot in our life in addiction and it enabled us to continue in our dysfunctional lifestyle.  We deceived those we came into contact with so we could get what we wanted from them.  Addicts lie to themselves and others all the time.  They tell themselves they have things under control when they do not.  They minimize the problems they are causing.  They simply hide from uncomfortable truths. 

The reality is that it is only when we come into recovery and start telling the truth that we realize what a huge weight is lifted off our shoulders.  We are often surprised by the light-hearted freedom we are experiencing.  God is pleased with us and His blessing settles in our hearts.  Telling the truth is a wonderful way to experience new life.

 The Lord hates people who tell lies, but he is pleased with those who tell the truth. (Proverbs 12:22 ERV)

 

Stress levels are reduced significantly when we live in the truth.  We do not have to worry about the stories we tell and what peoples’ reaction will be when something unpleasant is said.  We can be ourselves and allow others to do the same.  Dishonesty contributes to isolation and loneliness because no matter how much we convince others with our lies, deep down we know we have lied, and we hate ourselves for our ongoing dishonesty. 

 If you are good, you are guided by honesty. People who can't be trusted are destroyed by their own dishonesty.  (Proverbs 11:3 GNT) 


The Bible promises that the truth will keep us safe. There may be momentary discomfort if the truth we need to admit is unpleasant, but the long-term benefit of this groundwork will allow us to live with peace of mind and heart.

 Honesty will keep you safe, but everyone who is crooked will suddenly fall.  (Proverbs 28:18 CEV)

 


Prayer:  Loving God, Please lead me by Your truth and teach me, for you are the God who saves me. All day long I put my hope in you. Amen (Psalm 25:5 NLT)

 

 

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