When we come to Step 4 in the 12-Step program we are asked to focus on ourselves and make a searching and fearless moral inventory. We are not to focus on anyone else or on the impact they may have had on our lives. We are to concentrate on ourselves and truthfully admit that it was our decision making that got us to where we are today. We are the ones who chose our way of life.
The reason we look at ourselves is to measure how our judgment measures up with the principles contained in the Word of God and in society in general. Taking responsibility for our actions is a great first step in the right direction. As we look at situations where we made irresponsible choices, we can assess our thinking process at that time and give some thought as to why we chose the route we did. In some instances, we may have acted without even thinking about the consequences of our actions.
Most of us want to avoid self-examination. It is so much easier to blame others for the harm they caused us and to believe their actions contributed to our defects of character. Masking grief with any substance or behaviour does not bring about health.
Come to me, all you who are tired and are carrying heavy loads. I will give you rest. (Matthew 11:28 NIRV)
Prayer: Heavenly Father, Help me to be honest in my self-evaluation and allow the healing process of my life with You in recovery to begin. Amen
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