Just For Today I Will Pray Blessing

Monday December 4, 2023

Just for today I will be agreeable.  I will not criticize, not find fault, and not try to improve or control anybody except myself.  I will pray blessing on one person with whom I struggle to relate.

We may find it easy to bless some people but today we are asked to be agreeable and bless someone with whom we struggle to relate.  How do we do that?  If we’re honest most of us would like to avoid those with whom we struggle to relate.  How and where do we find the desire and willingness to bless them?  

Generally, our desire is that the person who did us harm would acknowledge what they did to us and be sorry for what happened.  We may be waiting for them to make the first move.  To bless someone with whom we struggle to relate might mean reflecting on our part in whatever went wrong and taking responsibility for it.  Making amends for our part may also be how we bless that person.  Depending on the incident, sometimes the best way to bless someone we are having a problem with is to forgive them and let go of the issue.  Life is too short to hold onto every single wrong word or bad attitude we have experienced or are personally responsible for. 
The generous will prosper; those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed.  Bless those who curse you.  Pray for those who hurt you. (Proverb 11:25, Luke 6:28 NLT)

We are not familiar with what is happening in another person’s life.  When we are upset about what someone said or did, perhaps we should first seek to bless that person with kind words so they might be encouraged. Just offering a listening ear or a helping hand may lessen the weight of pressure a person is under. Encouragement is never wasted.  Even if a person’s efforts fall short of our standard, giving thanks for a work they have done may provide a beautiful bridge to healing.  

Share each other’s burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ.  (Gal. 6:2 NLT)

Finally, it is important to be generous without keeping score of “who owes who” and “whose turn it is.”  If a score were kept on how many times God has blessed us and how many times we have given thanks, who would win? 

Prayer:  Heavenly Father, As You have unconditionally loved and blessed me, help me to be kind and to bless any person with whom I struggle to relate.  Amen

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