No Regrets

Friday February 16, 2024

The second promise found in the Big Book of AA tells us that if we continually work the steps, “We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it.”  This echoes what we read in the Bible about our journey in this new life with God in recovery.



I’m not saying that I have this all together, that I have it made. But I am well on my way, reaching out for Christ, who has so wondrously reached out for me. Friends, don’t get me wrong: By no means do I count myself an expert in all of this, but I’ve got my eye on the goal, where God is beckoning us onward—to Jesus.  I’m off and running, and I’m not turning back.
  (Philippians 3:12-14 MSG)

One of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves is accepting the fact that whatever happened in the past cannot be changed.  We can learn from it and allow God to use it to bring about good, but we cannot change it.  With God’s help though, we can safely let go of regret and any related shame we may continue to feel.

We know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.  (Romans 8:28 NIV) 

Because of God’s unfailing love for us, we can look at our past with eyes wide open.  We can review what occurred in some troubling events and accept responsibility for any part we played, and then just let the rest go.  We can work at becoming ready to make amends for the harm we have caused and also seek healing and forgiveness for all who were involved  We can keep our hearts and minds open to God’s ongoing process of restoration as He restores us to sanity.  We can live with the knowledge of progress rather than perfection.  Above all, we can live in gratitude to God for one more day to enjoy His blessings and to carry this message of hope to others who suffer.

Prayer:  Loving God, Thank You for opening up my future and closing my past.  Thank You for today.  With Your help I will embrace whatever this day may bring, trusting that you will guide me along a good path and work all things, past, present, and future, together for my good and to glorify Your name.  Help me to accept my past in the light of the future You have planned for me.  Amen

 

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