Control Issues

Tuesday March 5, 2024
 

Control issues are widespread in addiction and are a problem for both the addict and for those who care about them.  Those involved in unhealthy activities or abusing substances often lie to themselves about how they have everything under control.

The idea that somehow, someday he will control and enjoy his drinking is the great obsession of every abnormal drinker. (Big Book Chapter 3) 

Those who live with or around addicts often feel that their own well-being is threatened and try to control their environment with rigid rules.  There are many expressions of attempting to control someone including anger, ridicule, reward, etc.

The truth is, only God can bring about change in us or in our loved one, because the satanic enemies behind addiction are too strong for us to face alone.  Only God has the power and authority to control all things.  If we ask Him, He will act on our behalf. 


 
He saved them from the power of their enemies. He set them free from their control. When evening came, many people controlled by demons were brought to Jesus. He drove out the spirits with a word. He healed all who were sick. (Psalm 106:10, Matthew 8:16 NIRV) 
God has made provision for us to be free from the power of addiction and the fear that makes us control freaks.  As we give our will and life over to the care of God, we will see how He defends us against the power of our enemies.  Safe in God’s care, we can stop trying to control others and simply invite them to also trust God. 

Don’t live under the control of sin. If you do, you will think about what sin wants. Live under the control of the Holy Spirit. If you do, you will think about what the Spirit wants.  (Romans 8:5 NIRV)

Prayer:  Heavenly Father, I am out of control and I don’t know how to proceed.  Fill me with Your Holy Spirit so that in His power my enemies will be defeated, and I can obey You and experience the blessed life You have prepared for me.  Amen

  

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