Practicing Discretion

In the Big Book of AA, we are advised to use discretion in knowing how much time and attention to give to any one person or situation.  Employers are encouraged to use discretion in how they approach those employees they want to help, even in mentioning the Big Book.  We are cautioned to use discretion when making our Step 9 amends to people, and to do so only when it would not further injure them or others.

To show discretion is to know the right thing to do in a situation and behave in such a way that we don't cause offense.  Quite the challenge. Thankfully, the Bible is very clear about how we can gain wisdom and practice discretion. 

We know that on our own we are powerless to maintain healthy boundaries, think before we speak, and to know what’s best in complicated situations.  God’s promise is that He will give us common sense, will protect us, will show us the way that is just and fair, and will even fill us with joy as we walk this journey.  

Prayer:  Heavenly Father, I want to practice wisdom and discretion in all my affairs.  Help me to display knowledge of Your ways in each situation I encounter today.  When I should be silent, help me to not speak.  Where I need to practice healthy boundaries, help me to do so.  Help me to put into effect the lessons You are teaching me as I walk with You each day.  Amen