Control Issues

Sunday May 19, 2024
 

Control issues are widespread in addiction and are a problem for both the addict and for those who care about them.  Those who are involved in unhealthy activities or are abusing substances often lie to themselves about how they have everything under control.

The idea that somehow, someday he will control and enjoy his drinking is the great obsession of every abnormal drinker. (Big Book Chapter 3) 

Those who live around addicts often feel their own well-being is threatened and so they attempt to control their environment by rigid rules.  There are many expressions of how one person attempts to control another including, anger, ridicule, reward, etc.

The truth is, only God can bring about change in us or in our loved ones because the satanic enemies influencing addiction are too strong for anyone to face alone.  Only God has the power and authority to control all things.  If we ask Him, He will act on our behalf.  

He saved them from the power of their enemies. He set them free from their control. When evening came, many people controlled by demons were brought to Jesus. He drove out the spirits with a word. He healed all who were sick. (Psalm 106:10, Matthew 8:16 NIRV)

God has made provision for us to be free from the power of addiction and the fear that makes us control freaks.  

As we give our will and life over to the care of God, we experience how He defends us against the power of our enemies.  When we feel safe in God’s care, we can stop trying to control others and simply invite them to put their trust in God. 

Don’t live under the control of sin. If you do, you will think about what sin wants. Live under the control of the Holy Spirit. If you do, you will think about what the Spirit wants.  (Romans 8:5 NIRV)

Prayer:  Heavenly Father, I’m out of control and I don’t know how to proceed.  Fill me with Your Holy Spirit so that in His power my enemies will be defeated. Help me to obey Your Word and experience the blessed life You have planned for me.  Amen

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