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Seeking Approval

Thursday May 9, 2024

Deep within each person is the desire for approval from others – particularly from those we consider significant in our lives.  This need goes deep for those who have been misunderstood, hurt, or rejected by a parent or caregiver.  It produces a drivenness in them for approval from others so that they may feel good about themselves.  They co-dependently try to care for the needs of others and do things others desire, even though it may not be good for them.  


God wants to help us find a new way forward.  It begins with knowing that our deepest need for approval is met by God and not by others who may be fickle or uncaring.

God was pleased to trust us with his message. We didn’t speak to please people, but to please God who knows our motives. (1 Thessalonians 2:4, CEV)

God has chosen us, given us life, and called us back from dark and unhealthy places.  God has given us a story to tell others that reflects what a powerful God He is and what dramatic changes He makes in the lives of those He has rescued.  

We share our stories, not because we are perfect, but because we are loved by the God who created us and made us feel more secure than we ever thought possible.  God has work for each of us to do today that will bless others and give us deep satisfaction.  God created us for this.  God wants us to share with others the love and grace we have found in Him.  
Do your best to win God’s approval as a worker who doesn’t need to be ashamed and who teaches only the true message. When you do good deeds, don’t try to show off. If you do, you won’t get a reward from your Father in heaven.  (2 Timothy 2:15, Matthew 6:1 CEV)

As we serve God according to His plan and purpose, He will affirm us in what we are doing, regardless of whether others notice or not, or how they may respond.

Prayer:  Heavenly Father, I want to come close to You and experience the satisfaction of belonging to You.  You love me.  You accept me.  I have nothing to prove in order to receive from You.  Help me to become more conscious of Your love and affirmation and look only to You for approval.  Amen

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