Approval Seeking

Tuesday June 11, 2024

All of us like to be appreciated when we feel we have acted wisely or done a good job.  

We know that after Jesus allowed John the Baptist to baptize Him, God spoke and said that He was well pleased with Jesus.  God is an encourager and is pleased with us when we choose to follow His principles in all our affairs.

And a voice from heaven said, “This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased. (Matthew 3:17 NIV) 

In the above scenario, Jesus did not seek His Father’s approval. It was freely given. Often when we have received no encouragement or appreciation for a wise decision we have made or a task we have completed, we are offended that no one took the time to say, “Well done.”  When our efforts were not acknowledged, we felt the good we did was not valued, and self-pity flooded our thinking. Now we are learning that a job well one is sufficient approval in itself.

Therefore do not throw away your confidence, which has a great reward.  For you have need of endurance, so that when you have done the will of God you may receive what is promised. (Hebrews 10:35-36 ESV)

In the past we served our own selfish desires until our lives became unmanageable.  Now we are beginning to make wise decisions and we want others to notice.  We should not be discouraged when we feel this need for approval. Instead we should look to our God who sees everything and tell Him what is going on within us.  God will comfort and strengthen us in our time of need, and we will grow stronger in the knowledge of His ways if we do not give up. 


He leads the humble in what is right, and teaches the humble his way. Lead me in your truth and teach me, for you are the God of my salvation; for you I wait all the day long. (Psalm 25:9, 5 ESV)

For a time, we acted totally in self-interest. Now we are learning God’s ways, and in time, God’s approval will be enough for us.


Prayer:  Loving God, Help me to recognize and appreciate what others do as they minister in Your name. My desire is that I will be fully satisfied with Your approval alone.  Amen

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