Character Defect Lying

 

The Bible makes it clear that God detests lying.  In our addiction, most of the time, we did not speak the truth.  We also lied by being silent in some situations and thereby giving false impressions of the truth.   There are various reasons why we lied, some of which are: to get what we wanted; to protect ourselves; to protect others; to get out of trouble.  There is a slogan that says, “We are most like the devil when we lie.”


Do not steal.  Do not tell lies.  Do not cheat one another.  The Lord detests lying lips, but he delights in those who tell the truth.  (Leviticus 19:11; Proverbs 12:22 NLT)

It is sad when someone is a compulsive liar.  People around them know they cannot be relied on to tell the truth.  Some of us were once like that.  We tried to paint word pictures of ourselves that were glowing and got angry with others when they saw right through us.  Thank God He brought us to the place where we were able to see the truth. 


We came to acknowledge that we were powerless over our dependencies and that our life had become unmanageable.
  In recovery we are encouraged to tell the truth even though it can sometimes be painful.

An honest witness tells the truth; a false witness tells lies.  Truthful words stand the test of time, but lies are soon exposed.  (Proverbs 12:17, 19 NLT)


Our lives will be transformed if we are willing to truthfully bring all the events of our past into the light of God’s forgiveness and healing grace.  Covering up certain incidents is being untruthful and puts us back into the darkness where we are subject to relapse.  

Why not reveal those things that have the power to oppress us and receive forgiveness and healing?  We can then build a new life on the foundation of the truth of God’s word.

And so, dear friends, while you are waiting for these things to happen, make every effort to be found living peaceful lives that are pure and blameless in his sight.  (2 Peter 3:14 NLT)

Prayer: Loving God, I have fallen short of speaking the truth in so many ways. Please help me build the new life You have given me on the truth of Your word.  Amen

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