Overly Responsible
As we have moved forward in recovery we have come to realize that we are accountable for our actions, for the behaviour that has impacted our relationships, and for the problems we created while in bondage to our addiction. It has not been easy for us to identify and take responsibility for these things, but as we have done so, it has been liberating and life changing.
For some of us it's been a balancing act between taking responsibility for our part and being overly responsible for the actions of others that were beyond our control. While we may have had a part to play in making life difficult for others, their choices remain their responsibility. It is up to each person to identify their own issues and take any necessary action to resolve them. It is not our job to sort others out and fix their problems.
The Lord will guide you continually, giving you water when you are dry and restoring your strength. You will be like a well-watered garden, like an ever-flowing spring. (Isaiah 58:11 NLT)
It is important that we care for and support others, assisting them when help is truly needed. We do a disservice to others when we continually do things for them that, with instruction, they could do for themselves. By being overly responsible we get in God’s way because God uses all the circumstances of a person’s life to draw them to Himself.
Boundaries help us live respectfully and safely in our relationships. When we define and maintain personal boundaries, they contribute to our peace. When we get a clearer picture of what it takes to live in healthy ways, God will be honoured by having first place in all our decision making and actions.
Prayer: Heavenly Father, Help me to identify and live within healthy boundaries. I want to be supportive of others but avoid causing harm by getting in the way of Your work in their lives. Please help me to be both caring and wise each day. Amen
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