Seeking Approval

Tuesday November 5, 2024
 

Deep within each person is the desire for approval from others – particularly from those we consider significant in our lives.  This need for approval is even deeper in those who have been misunderstood, hurt, or rejected by others.  Often it produces in the person a drivenness for approval from others, in order to feel good about themselves.  They may co-dependently try to meet the needs of others and do things others desire, even though they know it will harm their own self-worth. 

God wants to help us find a new way forward.  It begins with knowing that our deepest need for approval is met by God, and not by others who can be fickle or uncaring.

God was pleased to trust us with his message. We didn’t speak to please people, but to please God who knows our motives. (1 Thessalonians 2:4, CEV)

God has chosen us, given us life, and called us back from the dark and unhealthy places we once existed in. God has given us a story to tell which illustrates what a powerful God He is and the dramatic changes He makes in the lives of those He has rescued.  

We share our stories, not because we are perfect, but because we are loved by the God who created us and made us feel more secure than we ever thought possible.  God has work for each of us to do today that will bless others and give us deep satisfaction.  God created us for this.  God wants us to tell others of the love and grace that we have found in Him.  

Do your best to win God’s approval as a worker who doesn’t need to be ashamed and who teaches only the true message. When you do good deeds, don’t try to show off. If you do, you won’t get a reward from your Father in heaven.  (2 Timothy 2:15, Matthew 6:1 CEV)

As we serve God according to His plan and purpose, He will affirm us in what we are doing, regardless of whether others notice, or how they may respond.

Prayer:  Heavenly Father, I know I have nothing to prove in order to receive from You. I belong to You.  You are my Abba Father.  You love me.  You accept me.  Help me to become more conscious of Your love and affirmation for me and to seek Your approval only. Amen

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