Uselessness And Self-pity Disappear

On pages 83-84 of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous we read twelve promises that will happen as we diligently work the twelve steps.  The question is asked:  “Are these extravagant promises? We think not. They are being fulfilled among us - sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. They will always materialize if we work for them.”

Many of us have wasted years and even decades in addiction.  By the time we get into recovery our bodies are tired and worn out, our minds are fragile, and it takes a long time for us to find favourable circumstances where we can learn new skills.  We often feel like the opportunity to be successful and productive has passed us by, but the sixth promise addresses us at this place when it says, “That feeling of uselessness and self-pity will disappear.”

This promise is echoed in what God promises us.  God’s plan for our lives will begin to be perfected the moment we put our trust in Him and begin to follow His ways.  God will use everything in our past, in our present, and in our future, to bring about the amazing plan He has prepared for us.  His will for us is to have a meaningful, purposeful, and joyful life. 

How does God do it?  How does it all come about?  We don’t know and we don’t have to know.  Our part is to get to know God, follow His guidance, stay strong in His love, and be available.  God will teach us everything we need to know and promises that we will experience a fulfilling and fruitful life.

Prayer:  Gracious Father, I have wasted much time in addiction and unhealthy life practices.  Help me to believe Your promise that You can use me in a way that blesses others and fills me with joy and satisfaction.  Show me my part in Your overall plan and help me to fulfill it by doing the next right thing and leaving the outcome with You.  Amen

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