Becoming Emotionally Available Again

Monday February 3, 2025

Living in addiction is living emotionally unavailable to God, to others, and to ourselves.  One of the essential areas we give our attention to in recovery is learning how to identify, experience, and deal with emotions.  Grief, shame, unforgiveness, and fear of rejection are just some of the root causes of our emotional separation from life experiences.  God created us to be individuals who experience a wide variety of emotions, and He wants to help us recover the satisfying life that He prepared in advance for us. 

We know that God loves us. We depend on it. God is love. Anyone who leads a life of love is joined to God and God is joined to them. Love is kind and patient.  Love rejoices in the truth, but not in evil.  Love is always supportive, loyal, hopeful, and trusting. Love never fails! (1 John 4:16 NIRV, 1 Corinthians 13:4a, 6-8 CEV) 
The only way to healing and becoming emotionally available again is to repent of our former ways and open our hearts to God's unfailing love for us.  Jesus died on the cross to make this life available to us.  God gave us freedom of choice to invite Him to come and make our dead hearts alive and to give us comfort and healing.  We don't have to earn this new life.  We need not fear that it will be taken away from us if we do something wrong.  In the safety of God’s love, forgiveness, and healing, we can face the truth of every emotionally threatening memory or circumstance.
 I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit in you. I will take out your stony, stubborn heart and give you a tender, responsive heart.  (Ezekiel 36:26 NLT)

Our journey in this area will likely be taken in very small steps.  As we persevere and open our hearts more and more each day, God will accompany us and support us through the healing process.  If we are emotional and sense that we may be vulnerable to shutting down or running and hiding once again, we can call out to God for His help to improve our conscious contact with His love.

Prayer:  Loving God, While I find it quite difficult to open up to my emotions, I know you created me to experience a healthy and satisfying emotional life.  I turn away from fear and invite You to give me a new life today.  Help me to trust in the safety of your unfailing love and support.  In Your care, help me to learn to live and love others as You love me.  Amen

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