When To Speak And When To Be Silent

Friday February 28, 2025

When we were powerless over our addiction how many times did people try to help us see the truth about our problem? However, we just ignored them each time and continued on in our rebellious ways? As we share the message of life with God in recovery with others, we need to pray for wisdom to know when to speak and when to simply pray and leave people until they are ready.

Never correct conceited people; they will hate you for it. But if you correct the wise, they will respect you. Anything you say to the wise will make them wiser. Whatever you tell the righteous will add to their knowledge. (Proverbs 9:8-9 GNT)

It is a good idea to share in a measured way and watch for the reaction of those to whom we are speaking. This is particularly true for those who are not yet willing to admit to their own struggles and their need for freedom from the bondage of addiction. We may not agree with what a person says but we don’t always need to confront it. Silence has its place. Every conversation with others can be prayed about and God will prompt us when to speak, and what to say.

The right word at the right time is like precious gold set in silver. It makes a lot of sense to be a person of few words and to stay calm. (Proverbs 25:11, 17:27 CEV)

On the flip side, when we are with people and especially with those who are longing to hear about the hope we can share, we need to honour God by telling the story of His work that gave us life and recovery. We need to truthfully share both the impact of responding to God’s Word and the rejecting of it had in our lives. We are a witness not a judge. We are to be those with stories of hope and comfort. God’s Holy Spirit will do the rest.

To be wise you must first have reverence for the Lord. If you know the Holy One, you have understanding. Wisdom will add years to your life. You are the one who will profit if you have wisdom, and if you reject it, you are the one who will suffer. (Proverbs 9:10-12 GNT)

Prayer: Loving God, You made so many wonderful changes in my life that I am eager to share my experience, strength, and hope with others. Help me to be wise and know when to speak and when to listen with respectful silence. Please open opportunities for me to share Your Good News and, as I speak, fill my mouth with Your words of hope. Amen

When To Speak And When To Be Silent

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